Monday, April 9, 2012

The Todd and his Vixen

As I sit here waiting for Baby L. to drift into his afternoon nap, I thought I would take this opportunity to give a little background on the Fox family and its members. Please bear with me as I am writing this on my tablet and expect many mistakes as a result. It is very likely that this will need to be done in two sittings. Here we go!

THE STEPH

As I have touched on before, I am Stephannie. I am a little over 25 1/2 years old and have lived in Utah my entire life. I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (you know, the Mormons) and love it. There are seven kids in my family and I am number two of the brood. I have one brother who is older, three brothers who are younger as well as two younger sisters. I love playing softball and basketball, World of Warcraft, most games, sewing, creatinfg, crafting, playing with Baby L., spending time with family and friends, playing or listening to music, reading, and doing anything with Fantastic Mr. Fox. I attended three years of college at Snow College and Utah State University where I majored in Psychology and Home and Family Studies and in the middle of all of that was trained and worked as a dental assistant.

MR. FOX

Fantastic Mr. Fox is my dear love and best friend. He also has lived in Utah all his life and was born in a house only three blocks from where we live now in Provo, Utah. We walk past it every week when we go on our walks and he tells stories of his childhood during the brief years that his family lived there. Mr. Fox is also the second child in his family, but he's the only boy with one older sister and three younger. He loves anything to do with plants and gardening, the outdoors, basketball, World of Warcraft (it's how we got to know each other so well, but that story may be for another time), Fable, Diablo, Warcraft, Pocket Tanks, can do many things with computers, playing with and loving Baby L, and spending time with his lovely wife. =) He is currently attending Utah Valley University where he is majoring in Computer Science and doing very well (I believe he has maintained a 4.0). When he's not doing homework, he's at work where he does support for a web hosting company only 5 minutes away from our house and comes home every day for lunch so he can see his little family. <3

THE TODD AND HIS VIXEN

We met at the end of April 2008 through my boyfriend at the time. We were at a special screening for the movie Iron Man a few days before it was released in theaters because my boyfriend had family who owned the local movie theater and allowed family members to invite friends to the test-run of the film reel to make sure that it had been assembled properly to be viewed by customers in a few days. Mr. Fox and this boyfriend worked together and became good friends, so naturally we all spent a lot of time together. Over the coming year we spent many hours together every week goofing-off and doing what best friends do. Since I was already in a relationship and he was best friends with the guy I was in a relationship with, everything between us was strictly platonic. It was a perfect way to get to know each other because no one was trying to impress anyone and we got to see what the other really was like.
It was nearly a year (from when we first met) before we started dating after I had been broken up from my boyfriend for a while. Our first date was March 28 when he took me to see Monsters vs. Aliens. We would go to dinner and movies, spend time talking at his house, hang out with his dad, play games, and even went to a session of General Conference at the Conference Center in Salt Lake. The date we became "officially" boyfriend and girlfriend was April 8, 2009. We dated for a while before deciding that we were simply marvelous for each other and started planning for a future. Dating for four months, he "officially" proposed to me on August 1, 2009 at the place where we would be getting married: the Salt Lake Temple.

We became Mr. & Mrs. Fox on October 9, 2009 in the Salt Lake Temple in Salt Lake City, Utah. It was the happiest day of our lives to finally be joined together as a new family. We have each had many painful and significant trials and struggles in our lives and had all but given up on ever being happy and whole. We found hope in each other when we were friends and had that hope realized when we became husband and wife. That enlivened us and gave us new life and purpose.We had found each other. In every way we had rescued and helped each other be better people and and grow closer to the Lord. We were first friends who cared, then we fell in love. For myself, who better to fall in love with than my hero and knight in shining armor?  For him, who better to fall in love with than his damsel in distress? It was the first day of Eternity. =)

THE KIT

Baby L was born Thursday, June 9, 2011 at 7:36 AM in Orem, Utah. From when my water broke to when he emerged via forceps was roughly 4-5 hours. He decided to spare his mommy the 24+ hour labor that is typical with the delivery of the first child, but it was a catch-22 since everything progressed so quickly it was still very intense and painful. The original plan with his delivery was a natural labor and birth, but mitigating factors forced me to opt for an epidural after I was dilated to a nine. We were informed that Baby L was having alarming drops in his heart rate with the contractions and would need assistance being born ASAP with forceps.
We were able to experience discovering the gender of Baby L when he was born because we chose to not find out what we were having. It was a beautiful moment when I first saw our baby held up and I exclaimed to Mr. Fox "It's a boy! We have a boy!" I wish we had a picture of the look on Mr. Fox's face and mine when we saw our little BOY.
I love everything about Baby L. Everything. Despite the days that he doesn't allow me to sleep or screams in my face, I love him more and more. He's growing so fast that I can barely remember the days that he was so tiny and helpless. He now crawls at lightning speed and climbs stairs like he's been doing it for months and months. His vocabulary is always expanding and he will be standing on his on very soon, which will introduce a whole new level of mobility to him and a new level of babyproofing for us. =)
At this point that I am now typing this entry, Baby L is 10 months old today (coincidentally, it is also our 2 1/2 wedding anniversary). I am listening to him giggle and talk to himself in his bed as he is riding the good mood of just waking up from an afternoon nap.

Those squeals of delight are my cue to finish this entry for the day. I hope that I will be able to continue to share more about our family and daily life, but this must do for now.

Thanks for reading. Lata!

Friday, April 6, 2012

Steph the Fox

Well, here is yet again another attempt to document and record my life and musings. Prolly will be a sad flop, but at least I am trying. ;) And who could pass an opportunity to have the blog name Says The Fox?? Not I, says the Fox, not I.


To start off, my name is Stephannie T. Fox (hence the awesome title AND one of my given nicknames StephTheFox). I have had the great fortune to marry a wonderful man and by doing so, gain one of the coolest (indisputable FACT) last names: FOX. I use this to every advantage. Some of you may know that I have declared my occupation as "Being a Foxy Momma," which aside from the fun use of my last name, only makes sense because I am what I am. *smirk*
I became an official Foxy Momma on June 9th, 2011 when my husband (henceforth known as Fantastic Mr. Fox) and myself brought to this world our first child little Baby L. He is, without a doubt Fantastic. 


With that little nugget of information launched, I will just get right into what I was thinking of earlier as I was rocking Baby L. to sleep tonight. 


I believe that people may choose to do, or read as the case may be, what they want and should gladly do so. Because of those same freedoms, I may type or write what I wish, which will usually happen. I do not say these things because I plan to be so edgy or controversial or offensive, but we all know, especially my fellow XX chromosome beings (ladies), that sometimes emotions, hormones, passion, what have you, gets in the way of tact or rational thought (and even sometimes grammar). I am very okay with being a woman who feels and has emotions and anyone who is not may be better off not continuing to patronize my blog. Just saying. =)
I do not write this to seek attention or to become a sensation because, quite frankly, I do not really care about attention outside of my home or family or close friends (or at all, really). I simply decided that this could be a good (and much needed) outlet for my thoughts, feelings, creativity, and occasional frustrations. This is already sounding too pessimistic, so I will stop this for now and continue with a lighthearted quiz to share a little more about myself with anyone who may be compelled to read on. :-) Let us all now go back to when we were 18 years old and did these things obsessively... ;)


1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? 
Yes, actually. It is a long story. My mom wanted to name me Stephannie to name me after her mother who's name is Annie. It would have been my middle name, but this was nixed for a few reasons: 1. I would likely drop my middle name for my maiden name when I got married, so why bother with an extra name? Sad, but a fact of life for many ladies. 2. Stephanie Annie? A little redundant sounding. 3. It could have been Stephanie Ann, but once again, a little redundant. 4. It was somewhat of an "unofficial tradition" that the oldest daughter didn't get a middle name.


So, with those reasons, my mom wanted to give me her mother's name in my first name. Dad stemmed that idea by reasoning that I would have to suffer the headache of always correcting people when they spell my name (which I do). My actual birth name is Stephanie, but after learning of this naming drama from my mother when I was 16, I decided to take my grandma's name as was originally intended and unofficially changed my name to Stephannie. I love that I can carry my grandma's name because she is so dear to me and that the spelling is unique without being far out ridiculous. So, for the past 9 1/2 years I have been Stephannie. 

2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? 
Cried out of love for Baby L. or Fantastic Mr. Fox: Today

Cried out of sadness: A few days ago. Sometimes life is tough living in a dark and lonely basement apartment.

3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING? 
Yes, actually. I used to feel that my writing was cumbersome and boyish, but it has developed through the years as I have. It has unique flourish and a defined slant that comes from never being able to comfortably hold my writing tool the correct way that is taught, yet it is definitively feminine. The mix of cursive and print. 

4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? 
Italian Roast Beef or Chicken. Both have their times that they shine.

5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS? 
As I mentioned before, I have Baby L. who is a few days away from being 10 months old. We plan to have many more after him. =)

6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? 
If I'm being honest: Well, seeing as I don't actually like myself, I would find it difficult to want to be around a person like that. Typically I think that I have a sense of humor and can offer some fun conversation, but at the same time I feel that I am socially awkward and find it difficult to be around most people who I perceive to be more confident/beautiful/happy/talented/whole. I have sad days and I have glad days as any other person does. My sad days I prefer to have some quiet thoughtful time by myself and my glad days I want to laugh and enjoy company and activities. Hit and miss.

7. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT? 
I positively ooze with sarcasm.

8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS? 
Unless there is a strange fairy secretly removing tonsils, as far as I know I still have them.

9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
Probably not. I would rather skydive or para glide.

10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL? 
Either Lucky Charms (or any generic equivalent) or Reeces Puffs.

11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF? 
I rarely wear shoes that tie, but when I do, I do not typically untie them.

12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG? 
In some ways yes and in some ways no. Physically: I was in my softball/basketball/marching band days, but now I am weaksauce. Mentally: Depends on the task at hand. Math = FAIL Emotionally: I waver.

13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM? 
Oh. So. Many. I do not have a favorite, but I have many loves.

14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE? 
Physically: The way they carry or present themselves (especially when they think no one is watching). Personality: How they speak of others.

15. RED OR PINK? 
Red, but for Fantastic Mr. Fox, pink. He loves how beautiful and soft and feminine I look in pink. =)

16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF? 
I have lately been trying very hard to view things as "half-full," but when speaking of myself it is empty every time, so I shall steer clear of this question for the sake of those who may be reading.

17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST? 
My oldest and dearest friends. Growing up and moving on is both wonderful and tough for us all.

18. WHAT IS THE PAUL MCKENNA TECHNIQUE THAT YOU NEED TO WORK ON THE MOST?
Whowhat?

19. WHAT COLOR SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?
Just wearing my feet. Caucasian? ;)

20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Shared a few Oreos with Baby L. =)

21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW? 
The sound of the leaky bathtub faucet and Baby L.'s sweet sleep breathing and sighs. 

22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE? 
Clear. Maybe eggplant. Perhaps the classic and ever useful black.

23. FAVORITE SMELLS?
New babies: their hair, their skin, their sweet breath, even the delicate smell that gently lingers on their blankets and clothes. Love. New rain on the asphalt or pavement. Fresh herbs. SoftSoap Brown Sugar Vanilla (DISCONTINUED!! Noo!), Nina by Nina Ricci, campfire, morning mountain air... So many. =)

24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE? 
My mom. Figuring out plans for Grandma's birthday weekend. =)

25. MOUNTAIN HIDEAWAY OR BEACH HOUSE?
Mountain Hideaway. I could never live away from my beautiful Rocky Mountains. =)


26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH? 
Mmmm... I do love watching anything in the Olympics. Other than that, softball, baseball, and basketball. 

27. HAIR COLOR? 
Red. Auburn/red, actually. I was strawberry blonde as a baby and it gradually darkened as I grew up, but it always stayed red. Natural and great.  

28. EYE COLOR? 
Green/hazel. Honestly, my eye color changes a lot so it's tough to pin it to one solid color. 

29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS? 
Because I am quite blind, yes.

30. FAVORITE FOOD? 
Many, many things: Chocolate strawberries, pickles, salad, anything Italian (cheese + tomato + pasta = LOVE), steak, chocolate, hamburgers, salmon, all berries, Madagascar Vanilla Vanilla cupcakes... the delicious never ends.

31. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS? 
Both have their times that they shine. 

32. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED? 
The Ten Commandments (Conference Weekend =P)


33. WHAT COLOR SHIRT ARE YOU WEARING? 
Boring white t-shirt that I wear to bed.

34. SUMMER OR WINTER? 
Summer for the outdoors activities that come with it and Winter for the spirit and giving feeling that comes with the holidays. 


35. HUGS OR KISSES? 
Hugs from friends and family, hugs AND kisses from my two Fantastic Fox men. =)

36. FAVORITE DESSERT? 
Chocolate dipped strawberries. Always. 

37. STRENGTH TRAINING OR CARDIO?
I don't really do either (and need to), but since I'm a wimp I would have to say strength training. It's nice to be able to gradually work up. 

38. COMPUTER OR TELEVISION?
Computer. It's nicer to watch things when I want with the ability to pause AND without pesky commercials. If I really need to have the TV viewing experience, the HDMI cable is my friend. =)


39. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING NOW? 
Rereading the first Hunger Games. 


40. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? 
Boring Dell logo. Fantastic Mr. Fox has a picture of a fox that his youngest sister drew and had made into a mouse pad for his birthday. Much more win.

42. FAVORITE SOUND? 
Off the top of my head, Fantastic Mr. Fox saying "I love you." and Baby L.'s squealing laughter.

43. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES? 
Beatles

44. WHAT IS THE FARTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME?
Ummm... I'm not sure which is further between Washington DC and Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, but one of those places would be it. 

45. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT? 
I can remember almost any birthday by date or person or number association. Also, I play the clarinet and piano and crochet, but those aren't really "special."

46. WHERE WERE YOU BORN? 
LDS Hospital, Salt Lake City, Utah

47. WHERE ARE YOU LIVING NOW?
Provo, Utah

48. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR HOUSE?
We live in the basement apartment of my father in-law's house which is an unattractive rust color. Thank you 1969.

49. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR CAR?
My dear car LuLu is maroon and Fantastic Mr. Fox's car is silver. 

50. DO YOU LIKE ANSWERING 50 QUESTIONS?
I suppose so. It filled some time before I went to bed and I guess now some people know more or less some trivial things about me (assuming they made it this far before losing interest. Can't blame them with 50 questions!).




Well, there you have it, I guess. Congratulations on learning more about Steph the Fox. Now the real spectacle will be to see if I come back with another entry within the next six months. 


Thanks for reading. Lata!